Here’s a funny one from Rose about the need to have the right names listed to garner community approval.
In sixth grade we had this awful English teacher that we didn’t like. She had us read a book called Wringer by Jerry Spinelli, which was about wringing pigeons’ necks. I read the first chapter and complained to my mother about it. The people in it were pretty awful to each other (as well as the pigeons.) My mom read the book in one night and said “You are not reading this book for school.”
She decided not to fight this with the low ranks, and went straight to the top. So she called the (big, local) rabbi whose name was on the school letterhead. She read him passages and said that he was on the Halachic board, what did he think?
He said “What school?” She named it. “I’ve never heard of this school. Are you sure I’m on the letterhead?”
She confirmed it was true.
“What’s the number? I’ll say that in this day and age you can’t make a girl read a book that her mother doesn’t approve of.”
The principal was kind of upset. She said they had read passages to a rabbi and he said it was okay. Obviously, that was a different rabbi. Not the (very prestigious) one listed as their Halachic Board.
I got to read a different book “Among the Hidden.” The principal graded it because the teacher refused to have anything to do with my book report. The principal noted on my report that it was a great book – one of her favorite – and a great book report.
My friend also wanted to read “Among the Hidden” and wanted to have a second book discussion with me. She didn’t succeed. Because her mother didn’t call the rabbi. The teacher made a speech about how you can just move past the icky parts and get over it. So she did.